My son is in 7th grade at a large public school in Pennsylvania and qualified for an IEP under Autism. He's kind and very bright and wants to be an engineer but is having a really hard time with school. His school refuses to recognize him as gifted. He excels in math, and is two years advanced, and finds gen ed science unchallenging. He struggles with reading, particularly fluency, accuracy, and spelling, relying on memorization instead of sounding out words. Comprehension had been superior but is now slowly declining but still above average. His writing and handwriting are also problematic, but his scores remain average or above, which limits the help he can receive despite numerous accommodations. There were times he refused to read, write, or go to school in elementary, leading the school to require meetings with a guidance counselor despite our not wanting this, and it clearly being from a teacher with the attitude that he just wasn't trying hard enough. At the end of 6th grade, we shared a reading and language evaluation highlighting concerns in reading, writing, and spelling. The school reevaluated him and found results to be average but agreed to support him with essay writing, as writing was clearly not "average", through teacher conferences and small group instruction in writing, but it’s unclear whether it’s being implemented effectively. We have concerns about when teacher conferencing and autocorrect aren't available (tests, on-demand writing, sharing info with peers).
Recently, we brought up our ongoing concerns about read and writing and also lack of progress and provided writing samples and reading probes. Without autocorrect and typing, his written responses are at a lower level than his verbal response would be and not at a 7th grade level. In response, school staff suggested a reading evaluation by a program specialist to gather more data, which was clarified to be a screening rather than another formal evaluation. We found this process confusing and questioned why previous concerns were handled differently. The current laws do not recognize his reading and writing disabilities since the school sees him as on grade level and at the top of his class, which feels unfair. While he maintains good grades with support, he experiences stress and struggles with the workload. We hope he can remain in public school, but it greatly depends on his teachers’ understanding of him. We are considering potential changes to his schooling arrangements, although we really want him to stay in public school, but it depends on his teachers and if they "get" him as to how each year goes. This year has been relatively good. He is working on self-advocacy and just started to gain some confidence in what he needs and how to ask for it. Although, it's difficult for him to self-advocate in an environment that doesn't fully recognize his needs or call them what they really are. It's very confusing and frustrating. He also has a hard time finding peers to connect with that have similar interests and at the same level.
Our main problem with getting help for our son is that "relative to ability" was removed leaving only relative to age or grade-level for qualifying for help as an SLD under IDEA and State criteria. So, the law does not "see" his reading and writing disabilities, because he's not below grade level which seems discriminatory to Twice Exceptional students just as requiring discrepancy between ability and achievement was not "seeing" all students who needed help prior to this change in 2006, and thus it's been difficult finding and advocate or attorney who understands and can give advice. My son does have discrepancies and would most likely qualify for SLD in reading and writing if he didn't first have to be below age and grade-level. The school points to his excellent grades, however he has a lot of support and leeway to achieve this, but my son shows stress, big emotions, and behaviors at home that indicate everything is not okay at school as he is using higher level reasoning and abilities to compensate for lower level deficits. (He skims, he's good at using context, but is being overwhelmed with the workload in 7th grade.) He is willing to do very , very minimal homework and reading and writing tutoring after school, because he doesn't want to do more school stuff at home especially since the school is not meeting his needs in a way that works for him and he's exhausted at the end of the day. Note, we first brought reading and writing concerns to the school in 1st grade when he became very upset and refused to do these things at home. He has many great skills that will serve him well in adult life, but he has to get through school first. I'd appreciate any tips for 2e kids in public schools that don't seem to "see" them? Thanks!
