They are not disputing ASD - autism will still be the primary eligibility criteria. He has a history of school refusal that was dismissed for a very long time. Outside assessments diagnosed ASD in 2nd grade; the school disagreed. It took multiple years and an IEE for the school to accept the ASD diagnosis. From his IEE in the 5th grade, neuropsychologist diagnosed his SLDs (dyslexia and dysgraphia), his ASD profile as PDA, along with high giftedness (prior ADHD diagnosis was never disputed). Up until 4th grade, he was holding it together during the day so hard and completely melting down at home - school felt he was fine once he was there. An IEP was agreed to once he started falling a grade-level+ behind in writing and refusing to do work. He has always - even in kindergarten - claimed to hate school, largely because he's never felt understood or that he trusts anyone there.
When he feels no one is listening to him or he's being misunderstood at school, he will elope. He does this safely, calls me each time it happens, and I talk him back to the campus or come to meet him. Our perspective, the school is not working to understand the 'why' behind his behavior (elopement and work refusal) or the role they are playing in causing the behavior to happen. He did not elope in 6th grade when the team was working well with and better understood him.